people 'should' be good, people 'should' respect their elders,people 'should' not indulge in any crime... and worst of all , people shouldn't be selfish..!
and so on...
'should' aur 'chahiye' jaise words ko to dimaag se nikal ke phaink dena 'chahiye'!!
what i want to say is, that how can anybody define what is right, what is wrong, what somebody should do, how somebody should think... ? will you define? are you seth?
(most of it is (as far as my brain says) linked to religion or god.)
take for example corruption. people take bribes, because they want to take it, and it is within their reach. I have seen people earning from bribes, and they spend some part of that money in 'good' things, like feeding the poor, donating and all.
not because they want any welfare of these people, but because they want their own satisfaction ki rishwat lene se 'paap' na lage.
Yaar karna hai to karo, and that too with very much clear conscience. No need to feel bad.
But Its our right that we stop you from doing this, to criticize you, and we will!!
(same is true for u too i suppose)
there are many who always keep on criticizing corruptions and all, but all signs of corruption are visible in them even at this stage... (i mean college me..)
These rights and wrongs are nothing but some things fed into our brains since our birth. (just like 'god'). If if at the age of five, you had been adopted by some terrorist, then u would have called terrorism as the best thing that happened to u! thats only because the stuff that now goes into your brains is different...
now you say that terrorists are wrong, then u would have said that people are wrong, jihaad vihaad ke liye lado.. allah naseeb hoga..
this way i think Everything, terrorism, murders , rapes etc... , everything can be justified.
i am not supporting them, mere saamne koi rapist aa gaya to main goli maar doon saale ko... but why would i? thats because of the surroundings i have been brought up in, thats what my parents, my school, movies, newspapers and so on have fed into my brain! Thats how my conscience has been built up.
would shooting such person would be right? i can kill him just because 'i' think raping is wrong?
I do what my conscience allows me to do... that can be anything... daan punya ya murder vurder... and conscience changes with time... today i might do stuff which i couldn't even think of some years back... Its all about being happy.
choti cheez lete hain...
kabhi kisi shopkeeper ko paise dena bhool gaye, you know u have not given the money, but the shopkeeper has forgotten it. Will you go and return the money? i do it (and by now you know why!) What if
somebody doesnt? is it 'wrong'? kisi ke dimmag me aa sakta hai ki shopkeeper is satisfied that he has made profit, so now i can keep the money. both satisfied, both happy, whats wrong?
and i don't mind at all!
but that will develop (some hate or may be disrespect) in me for that person... even more hate if he keeps preaching of the 'good' stuff and does this afterwards...
but we are selfish people, we want everybody to be like we want them to be, so we'll oppose corruption, we'll oppose terrorism...
But we have some laws... seedhe jaake jaan se to nahi maar sakte na... case vase karna padta hai...
also i think that laws have been built up keeping one thing in mind, that 'somebody' doesnt have any right over the life of 'somebody else'. and i find this quite justified. We've not been given the right to decide whats right or whats wrong. It all works according to the rule books.
(Thats also what i believe, and my conscience works on this principle only... equal opportunity for everybody... 'including me')
PS: please stop giving advice until asked for... nobody likes taking advise, everybody gives it, as if it is the best thing that is happening for the advice taker!
(although i havent seen many people doing this, but i have seen some.)
and so on...
'should' aur 'chahiye' jaise words ko to dimaag se nikal ke phaink dena 'chahiye'!!
what i want to say is, that how can anybody define what is right, what is wrong, what somebody should do, how somebody should think... ? will you define? are you seth?
(most of it is (as far as my brain says) linked to religion or god.)
take for example corruption. people take bribes, because they want to take it, and it is within their reach. I have seen people earning from bribes, and they spend some part of that money in 'good' things, like feeding the poor, donating and all.
not because they want any welfare of these people, but because they want their own satisfaction ki rishwat lene se 'paap' na lage.
Yaar karna hai to karo, and that too with very much clear conscience. No need to feel bad.
But Its our right that we stop you from doing this, to criticize you, and we will!!
(same is true for u too i suppose)
there are many who always keep on criticizing corruptions and all, but all signs of corruption are visible in them even at this stage... (i mean college me..)
These rights and wrongs are nothing but some things fed into our brains since our birth. (just like 'god'). If if at the age of five, you had been adopted by some terrorist, then u would have called terrorism as the best thing that happened to u! thats only because the stuff that now goes into your brains is different...
now you say that terrorists are wrong, then u would have said that people are wrong, jihaad vihaad ke liye lado.. allah naseeb hoga..
this way i think Everything, terrorism, murders , rapes etc... , everything can be justified.
i am not supporting them, mere saamne koi rapist aa gaya to main goli maar doon saale ko... but why would i? thats because of the surroundings i have been brought up in, thats what my parents, my school, movies, newspapers and so on have fed into my brain! Thats how my conscience has been built up.
would shooting such person would be right? i can kill him just because 'i' think raping is wrong?
I do what my conscience allows me to do... that can be anything... daan punya ya murder vurder... and conscience changes with time... today i might do stuff which i couldn't even think of some years back... Its all about being happy.
choti cheez lete hain...
kabhi kisi shopkeeper ko paise dena bhool gaye, you know u have not given the money, but the shopkeeper has forgotten it. Will you go and return the money? i do it (and by now you know why!) What if
somebody doesnt? is it 'wrong'? kisi ke dimmag me aa sakta hai ki shopkeeper is satisfied that he has made profit, so now i can keep the money. both satisfied, both happy, whats wrong?
and i don't mind at all!
but that will develop
but we are selfish people, we want everybody to be like we want them to be, so we'll oppose corruption, we'll oppose terrorism...
But we have some laws... seedhe jaake jaan se to nahi maar sakte na... case vase karna padta hai...
also i think that laws have been built up keeping one thing in mind, that 'somebody' doesnt have any right over the life of 'somebody else'. and i find this quite justified. We've not been given the right to decide whats right or whats wrong. It all works according to the rule books.
(Thats also what i believe, and my conscience works on this principle only... equal opportunity for everybody... 'including me')
PS: please stop giving advice until asked for... nobody likes taking advise, everybody gives it, as if it is the best thing that is happening for the advice taker!
(although i havent seen many people doing this, but i have seen some.)
