death... why...why not...

/*I thought about this, but never thought about writing on this until i read this post on anurag gulati's blog (http://anythingcanhappenwhenyouareme.blogspot.com/2011/04/death-it-is-not-maybe-that-bad.html).*/

It might come to someone's mind (has come to some minds....) to just end it...  just end the life... be far away fom all the 'suffering' that is happening...or if someone dies, somebody else could say that the guy has gone to peace... forever... a long sleep.. its the best for him... seems totally incorrect to me.

somebody might believe in after life, but there is no reason to believe so. Just one more imagination from somebody's brain gone to become the belief of others. May be something is there, but u can't know it before dying! And after dying, there might be NOTHING! and  this is what i believe, that dying is the stoppage of everything in your body and nothing else. Death would not be freedom in any way, it will be nothingness...i mean it wont be anything... if i die... this means i am deleted.. nothing else...
I enjoy being on earth, being alive... and i want to be so... just like everybody but some...
If i want to commit suicide, just when i am about to jump, if i would just come back and wait for some days.. i think i would get new reasons to live... and i would do the opposite of repenting... (can't remember the right word!)

I heard a woman, saying that presence of somebody on earth is merely sufferings that somebody has to go through... Death is the best thing for somebody.. we should be happy if somebody dies because he is now free from everything... (She seemed to be a fan of OSHO.. i.e. rajneesh)
Now is there any reason that u can figure out for such belief? though i couldnt talk to her, i still think she had gone wrong somewhere. Just to remove the fear of death, someone had washed her brain... but i can't tell for sure because i dont know exactly what she meant...


I want to die satisfied, satisfied just when i move to my deathbed and not before that... all possible wishes of mine fulfilled... thats the best thing that could happen for me, not death.

whats right, whats wrong...

people 'should' be good, people 'should' respect their elders,people 'should' not indulge in any crime... and worst of all , people shouldn't be selfish..!
and so on...

'should' aur 'chahiye' jaise words ko to dimaag se nikal ke phaink dena 'chahiye'!!

what i want to say is, that how can anybody define what is right, what is wrong, what somebody should do, how somebody should think... ? will you define? are you seth?
(most of it is (as far as my brain says) linked to religion or god.)

take for example corruption. people take bribes, because they want to take it, and it is within their reach. I have seen people earning from bribes, and they spend some part of that money in 'good' things, like feeding the poor, donating and all.
not because they want any welfare of these people, but because they want their own satisfaction ki rishwat lene se 'paap' na lage.
Yaar karna hai to karo, and that too with very much clear conscience. No need to feel bad.
But Its our right that we stop you from doing this, to criticize you, and we will!!
(same is true for u too i suppose)

there are many who always keep on criticizing corruptions and all, but all signs of corruption are visible in them even at this stage... (i mean college me..)

These rights and wrongs are nothing but some things fed into our brains since our birth. (just like 'god'). If if at the age of five, you had been adopted by some terrorist, then u would have called terrorism as the best thing that happened to u! thats only because the stuff that now goes into your brains is different...
now you say that terrorists are wrong, then u would have said that people are wrong, jihaad vihaad ke liye lado.. allah naseeb hoga..
this way i think Everything, terrorism, murders , rapes etc... , everything can be justified.

i am not supporting them, mere saamne koi rapist aa gaya to main goli maar doon saale ko... but why would i? thats because of the surroundings i have been brought up in, thats what my parents, my school, movies, newspapers and so on have fed into my brain! Thats how my conscience has been built up.
would shooting such person would be right? i can kill him just because 'i' think raping is wrong?

I do what my conscience allows me to do... that can be anything... daan punya ya murder vurder... and conscience changes with time... today i might do stuff which i couldn't even think of some years back... Its all about being happy.

choti cheez lete hain...
kabhi kisi shopkeeper ko paise dena bhool gaye, you know u have not given the money, but the shopkeeper has forgotten it. Will you go and return the money? i do it (and by now you know why!) What if
somebody doesnt? is it 'wrong'? kisi ke dimmag me aa sakta hai ki shopkeeper is satisfied that he has made profit, so now i can keep the money. both satisfied, both happy, whats wrong?
and i don't mind at all!
but that will develop (some hate or may be disrespect) in me for that person... even more hate if he keeps preaching of the 'good' stuff and does this afterwards...


but we are selfish people, we want everybody to be like we want them to be, so we'll oppose corruption, we'll oppose terrorism...
But we have some laws... seedhe jaake jaan se to nahi maar sakte na... case vase karna padta hai...

also i think that laws have been built up keeping one thing in mind, that 'somebody' doesnt have any right over the life of 'somebody else'. and i find this quite justified. We've not been given the right to decide whats right or whats wrong. It all works according to the rule books.
(Thats also what i believe, and my conscience works on this principle only... equal opportunity for everybody... 'including me')

PS: please stop giving advice until asked for... nobody likes taking advise, everybody gives it, as if it is the best thing that is happening for the advice taker!
(although i havent seen many people doing this, but i have seen some.)

aasheerwaad

blessings of elders... badon ke pair chuo.. aasheerwaad milega... i dont know why we believe in this..

bachpan se hi logon ko sikhaaya jaata hai ki badon ke pair chuo, take their blessings, marks acche aayenge, u'll be successful... give money to beggars u'll get their blessings... some give chappatis to dogs and cows(gau maata!!!)... punya milega... agla janam bhi accha ho jaayega abhi se!! :D

i don't like this in the first place because it simply makes everybody selfish from the start. Har kaam bas apne liye karo , touch the feet not out of respect, but out of selfishness. and When we grow up, we say 'i dont like selfish ppl.'...

and u'll say that u do it out of respect, bol lo...

i also do it , just to 'show' that i respect them. Karta hun ya nahi vo to bas mujhe pata hai...

Agar sachin century maarta hai, ground me standing ovation milti hai, agar tv pe dekh rahe hain to bhi khade hote hain, lekin tabhi ,jab aur log bhi baithe hon.
ground me sachin ko dikhaane ke liye, aur tv ke saamne logon ko dikhaane ke liye. Agar akele baithe ho to koi khada nahi hoga.
similar case is with touching the feet of elders, whether u respect them or not, u show that u do.

accha, vo sab to theek hai, but why do u believe that blessings jaisi cheez exists karti hai!!!??
kyunki mummy kehti hai :D

i think ki logon ne dekha hoga ki bacche haath se nikalte jaa rahe hain, boodha hote hi chod dete hain, to blessings jaisi cheez nikaal do, bacche dhang se baat karte rahenge.
it seems to me that this is the reason for the 'invention' (not discovery) of blessings... if u have a better one, do tell me.

GOD- yes or no?

/* dont mind my language, or arrangement of content, i m not trying to show my writing skills. */


Most of us believe, or may be "know" , that something or someone called as god exists. The reason for that (as i see it) is our parents and others called as elders. Have you ever thought of this before? I have asked this to very few people, and i am not satisfied with their answers.
"why do you believe that GOD exists?"

Q. who created the universe?
A. GOD
why?

Some say "har baat ka reason nahi hota yaar". This sentence is used only when we want to believe something, but there is no reason for that. Whenever we talk, we try to explain ourselves with the support of reasons and logic. Then why not here?
'If believing something makes me happy, then i shall believe it.' If that's the reason you give, that you are ready to admit that you can lie to yourself and be happy, then this is acceptable to me.

If somebody believes that "kainchi chalane se ghar me ladai hoti hai" , then we call it a superstition, because it seems illogical. the same way, your belief in god seems superstition to me.

Say u believe in god, but then why do you go to temples to pray? and you have already assumed that god is a person. why is that? And you are requesting him/her for the things that you desire, for which i dont see any reason. Some say that they go only to 'thank' god. Why do u have to go to temple for that if god is everywhere? and why is god everywhere!? just like that? just because mummy kehti hai? pandit jee kehte hain?

if you think God is energy, then are you praying to , or thanking this energy!?
if you think god is some "thing" , then it's better, but still why? why can't we say "i don't know." !?

Some people pray to Hanuman (on tuesday), some to ganesha and so on.
These are characters from the mythological( i dont know whats that) 'novels' and not the gods. Even if you think that they have got great character or persona, then you can respect them or follow them, how can you pray to them !?

muslims pray to allah, hindus to many, christens to christ, and even then GOD is one, and nobody knows who/what , and even then we want to believe that he/it exists.
All these gods seem to be born out of ego. That community has a god, we will also have one. Take India, thousands of gods for thousands of communities, but still God is one :D. More population, so more caretakers required for handling \m/

"main hanuman ji ko bahut maanta hoon kyunki tuesday ko kuch aisa hua tha ki..."
if u have ever said such a thing, think what you just did. You probably believe that Hanuman has been assigned the task to take care of you :D
=> Agar tuesday ko meri kaamnayein poori honi band ho gayi to i'll shift to some other god. My caretaker has been changed :D

upar swarg hai neeche nark hai. Agar acche karm karoonga to swarg me, nahi to narak me. what is this shit!! swarg me apsarayein hain, nark me rakshas! arre kyun bhai!! tumne kuch dekha hai kya kabhi?
ye batao ki acche karm hote kya hain... ye kaun define karega. tum karoge? kyun bhai. Tum seth ho kya!
Jis kaam se kisi doosre insaan ko haani na pahunche, kisi ka bhala ho, vo accha karm hai. kyun?
this is just the point of view, different ppl, different perspectives.
And belief is not a perspective.

If you believe in god, u must believe in ghosts.If you dont , think why. That might be because you dont want to believe it.

Some ppl see God in their dreams, telling them something, some people have seen ghosts. maine kyun nahi dekhe bhai?
you have seen something => you believe in it
but here,
you believe in something => you see it!!

what else... if you have any arguments, please post them here.
//added on 23/7/11
Fire helped to cook food, and it can also burn u. helpful, and dangerous
=> fire= god
Water is to be drunk, it can drown u,helpful, and dangerous
=> water =god
Cow gives milk
=>cow=god
and so on... but this is only in india i suppose.. what say...

(the following stuff is hypothetical... obviously!)
Ek din bhagwaan naam ka shabd invent kiya gaya... they taught people to worship 'him', so that he could fulfill their wishes... to saare log baith gaye honge pooja karne saare kaam vaam chodke...
Obviously, results would not have been as expected! Kaam karne chodoge to kaise jiyoge guru..
Phir ek nayi kahawat ka janm hua... 'bhagwaan usi ki madad karta hai jo khud apni madad karta hai'... waah ji waah...creating new premise according to needs...